Tuesday, March 4, 2008

DEBTS!! Hutang.....Uwaaaaaa.....nak nangis!!

yesterday i realised that i am living in a world full of DEBTS...!!! hahah, trust me when i say, i regret having this debts...all over me..night and day...arrrggggghhhhhhhh!!! stupid me!
but here are some tips (i browsed thru the Internet to find my own 'sanity') that i found...
8 milestones in your journey towards a debt free life: --hope these might help

- Study your credit report and evaluate your debt: The stepping stone to be debt free is to admit that you have debt, and are willing to be a free bird. Evaluate your credit report carefully and calculate the amount of debt you owe. The bill payment history in your report is a proof of how regular you had been during your past payments. Clear the accounts with the higher interest rates first. This will help you to save a lot of dollars. Without having a clear picture of your financial standing, it is very difficult to solve your problems.

-Budget your expenses and avoid adding even a single dollar to your debt amount: It's time you stop being a spendthrift. Change your spending habits. Keep a careful trace on the amount you earn and your basic expenses. Try and curtail your expenses as much as possible. This is all about changing your ways in life. By all means do not let a single dollar to be added to your already over burdened debt condition.
-Squeeze out extra money and accelerate your repayment: Curtail your present modes of lifestyle and shell out some extra dollars to your creditors in order to clear your debts faster. You can also try out a part time job and save some extra dollars. Take one account at a time. Clear your account with higher interest rates first. This will help you to save a lot of dollars.
-Choose the right method to clear your debts: There are various options for debt solutions. But selecting the right option is what matters most. You must be aware that one wrong step can ruin your future. The choice of your debt solution method should ideally depend on the type and amount of debt you are undergoing.
-Choose the right firm: very important for you to choose the right firm to seek help from.
-Eliminate credit cards: Close the account immediately once you have finished paying the debts for a particular credit card. Keeping the card with you can further cause temptation to use it. Never roll balances from one card to another as this has got some disadvantages. With every new card you have, you generate an outstanding open credit line. This will also be reflected on your credit report. Moreover, lenders might not allow you to roll your balances. Keep in mind that introductory offers are quite tempting but may not be all that good after a certain period of time. With careless moves you could be stuck with high balances. ---this i got to learn how...

-Be careful about the equity in your home: The rates on home equity loans are much lower when compared to the rates charged on outstanding credit card balances. Further the interest on a home equity loan may be deductible.

-Take professional help: Overspending for some people are a psychological problem. It can be a habit or an addiction like alcohol, gambling or taking drugs. Social problems like divorce and loss of a job or unavoidable emergencies like physical ailment can also be a cause. ---hopefully i'm still fine..
----HELP!!! S.O.S!!! again..uwaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhh.....

Wednesday, February 6, 2008

Another New Phase Begins....

thinking about the future, i wonder what it's going to look like. reason why i said this; all the plans that we've made, need to be planned again.why? my partner is going to live far from me..he's pursuing his dream...and eventually i have to sacrifice a few things. make it this way..be hurt before you heal...

the truth is, i really don't share his passion..but because he really thinks this is the only way to survive, he'll do it anyway. yet i wonder live without him all the time. being alone with my baby girl really bugs me..scared? yes indeed. tortured? definitely a fact...i don't do well alone...but to have a better future (as he said it), i have to follow his lead..

one more thing...my resolution for 2008 has partially fulfilled...i finally bought my own house..i repeat..MY OWN HOUSE!!! another major phase...but not to share it everyday with my dear really hurts me..the enthusiasm runs sour...ahh well..at least i have a place i called home and a man i called husband...what else do i want?

Tuesday, January 8, 2008

al-Fatihah

yesterday a friend of mine called me and told me sad news, one of our best friend's father passed away yesterday morning. it was shocking for me, i just saw him last month. and to see him strong and healthy, i didn't know he was sick...and i know how it feels to lose someone u love...i've been there..to my friend, esma, it's GOD will..be strong and stay calm.. prayers will always be with ur father and ur family...may GOD bless.....

---when is our turn?---

al-Fatihah.....

Friday, January 4, 2008

sedia setia

aku rasa sedikit sedih dan terkilan. apakan daya aku, cuma manusia biasa yang punya hati dan perasaan, punya akal fikiran namun tidak mampu melawan. apakan daya aku insan yang sedia untuk setia namun senantiasa dilukai. bersediakah aku menjadi mangsa, mampukah aku melawan takdir? sedih dan pilu, namun kesedihan itu tidak membawa erti apa pun. kepiluan itu tidak memberi makna yang benar...perasaan aku tidak difahami sesiapa pun. kenyataan itu tidak ku mengerti.

betapa aku memang tidak mampu.....

Wednesday, January 2, 2008

Ketulusan Hati

Ketulusan Hati
Cintaku tak berdusta
Tak mengenal ingkar
Tak kenal nestapa
Cintaku hanya indah
Hanya bahagia untuk selamanya
Apa yang kurasakan ini
Persembahan untuk dirimu
Kau biarkan kasihku

Mencintaimu tak mengenal waktu
Tak mengenal puitis, hanya tulusnya hati
Mencintaimu tak mengenal ragu
Keyakinan hatiku hanya untuk dirimu selalu

Cintaku tak berdusta
Tak mengenal ingkar
Tak kenal nestapa
Tak ada seribu janji
Hanya bahagia untu selamanya
Apa yang kurasakan ini
Persembahan untuk dirimu
Kau benarkan kasihku

Mencintaimu tak mengenal waktu
Tak mengenal puitis hanya tulusnya hati
Mencintaimu tak mengenal ragu
Keyakinan hatiku hanya untuk dirimu selalu
Apa yang kurasakan ini
Persembahan untuk dirimu
Kau dengarkan kasihku